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I found the root problem of the Opensim Community
It has become 100% apparent the one consistent problem of this community is criticism. Whether it be constructive, productive, observed or helpful it is automatically deemed an attack and the emotionally disturbed retaliate.
The severe lack of mental maturity is almost astounding but makes apparent as to why this website becomes a soap opera, every couple of days.
One person could post a new dress. Yes every sheeple will post ooh ahh and oh. Maybe it's an awesome dress? But if one person notices a defect, something missed or something out of place and says anything. AHHH OMMMaGAwwd!! The critiquer is immediately attacked, de-railed, accused of being uneducated and MUST have mental disabilities, a.k.a. un-hinged! The person is labeled a troll or a post hijacker, etc.
That one person would then be subjected to the rest of the sheeple, trying to one up the other for glory points, clout, community appreciation, medal of dishonor? Take your pick, it probably has been awarded and true.
In the end, what has been accomplished? The dress is put into obscurity and ignored. The creator lifted on some social chair among the crowd for being a VICTIM. Oh the horror that someone noticed an error.
Rather than thanks, let me fix it and re-post? Which would be the BEST option and solution. Very rare chance.
It is pretty pathetic and this post will be attacked because it goes against the grain of the sheeple. You must agree and obey and follow without individual thought, logic or suffer the wrath of the emotionally disturbed!
And people wonder why I rarely post so much so, that even Swiss coocoo clockmakers, accuse me of making a first post, because of the space in time in between them.
Once this community can mature, and stop with the self-righteousness and take criticism constructively, will it thrive. Only time will tell, but I doubt it. Because in the years I have been here, and this is no different than toxic secondlife, it hasn't changed for the better.
Give it a try and be better.
For the record, as an experiment, I will not partake in this discussion.
Here is a great chart to compare: Difference-Between-Constructive-and-Destructive-Criticism
It has become 100% apparent the one consistent problem of this community is criticism. Whether it be constructive, productive, observed or helpful it is automatically deemed an attack and the emotionally disturbed retaliate.
The severe lack of mental maturity is almost astounding but makes apparent as to why this website becomes a soap opera, every couple of days.
One person could post a new dress. Yes every sheeple will post ooh ahh and oh. Maybe it's an awesome dress? But if one person notices a defect, something missed or something out of place and says anything. AHHH OMMMaGAwwd!! The critiquer is immediately attacked, de-railed, accused of being uneducated and MUST have mental disabilities, a.k.a. un-hinged! The person is labeled a troll or a post hijacker, etc.
That one person would then be subjected to the rest of the sheeple, trying to one up the other for glory points, clout, community appreciation, medal of dishonor? Take your pick, it probably has been awarded and true.
In the end, what has been accomplished? The dress is put into obscurity and ignored. The creator lifted on some social chair among the crowd for being a VICTIM. Oh the horror that someone noticed an error.
Rather than thanks, let me fix it and re-post? Which would be the BEST option and solution. Very rare chance.
It is pretty pathetic and this post will be attacked because it goes against the grain of the sheeple. You must agree and obey and follow without individual thought, logic or suffer the wrath of the emotionally disturbed!
And people wonder why I rarely post so much so, that even Swiss coocoo clockmakers, accuse me of making a first post, because of the space in time in between them.
Once this community can mature, and stop with the self-righteousness and take criticism constructively, will it thrive. Only time will tell, but I doubt it. Because in the years I have been here, and this is no different than toxic secondlife, it hasn't changed for the better.
Give it a try and be better.
For the record, as an experiment, I will not partake in this discussion.
Here is a great chart to compare: Difference-Between-Constructive-and-Destructive-Criticism
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Why we need critics? This is place where we learn , or can you say that you can do all prefectly in RL either ? And hey infact we don't have mute or block button in RL. I always tell when someone shows me their creation and they tell me " oh shit this is not good" that "Hey it is Proto! no matter you can change it or try again." But critics about personality.. that one which wants to do it should just look at mirror first. No one is perfect
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There is a difference between critiquing because you truly want to help someone improve or just pointing out their faults and errors as a way to make yourself feel more superior.
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