I had left the site for a time, the bad mojo happening was too much.   Third time is a charm... :)
I have no control over how people think, or how they act.   And I wish I had not got so mad and had acted a little better myself.   But I just want people to know, if they feel abused by a few people, those angry people are in the minority.   Most people in OpenSim just want a peaceful place to be themselves.  Even the angry people, they are working their own stuff out too I guess.
Moving forward, I think we should all just cool it, and remember the person on the other side is a human too.  This isn't just a "game"  What we do and say matters, and can hurt or help people.