I got this and the matching husk and they look amazing, and 100% like the picture. Thank you so much Bonnie for bringing the magic to life.

try turning your router on and off, turn it off wait 2 mins then turn it back on your router, restarting your computer as this clears any static build up, open CMD as a Admin, and type in ipconflig /f...

"AVW we leave the lights on 24/7 for opensimulator users." And you're surprised by your electricity bill? :))

I'd clear your cache and then uninstall your viewer and do a fresh install of the viewer.

Could be a cache issue. If this is with Firestorm: Dee clean your cache. Opensim works different from SL here. For Secondlife, cleaning you cache is generally not advised. For Opensim, it's very neede...

try without attachments. check latency between your computer and destination grid. viewer has a fairly short timeout i think 30s.