sofee, I loved reading your posts and feeling your presence here in the virtual worlds that presence is "still present" you impressed us with your kindness and the "light" you carried, I will miss you...
If it's really heartbreaking to go you could just take a break and/or reduce your time commitments in virtual worlds and just stick around to relax in them. Whatever you do, I hope it works out in the...
You are being far too soft on your SUBS, collars should never ship with a gold comfort band. Perhaps something a little more manacling in appearance will ensure obeisance from those runaway subs! LOL