This is just terrible ... My heart is with you. You Never know how strong you are until strong is your only choice. Take courage.
God Bless you all. We will all meet again soon XXX
Ummmm I think i would rather know TBH ... No judgement - Each to their own and all that ... But Not that keen on that level of Deception. What is wrong with coming clean!
Discord is a popular work-around, but is sub-optimal (no spatial sound or lipsync) and there are questions about how secure user's personal data is. Discord is a little vague about whether it keeps recordings of people's conversations etc. according to this article: https://www.makeuseof.com/is-discord-safe/