I don't mind coming here for about 5 minutes or less every time I log in. I have met one person who is stable, intelligent and respectful that I am friends with . We speak occasionally and that seems to work for both of us. Anyone else there that I have friended, I have unfriended again as they were just not friend material for me. Most people just say "hi" which doesn't achieve much if not followed by intelligible conversation.
Lots of private IMing so what you see and hear on the surface is not what is really going on. Other than well meaning non talkers there are a lot of very angry aggressive and rude avatars with no social skills just waiting to pour their filthy wrath on innocent bystanders. I have blocked and derezzed a number of them and will continue to do so to spoil their vitriolic rages. LOL I do imagine they are busy continuing to say nasty and nonsensical things about all and sundry ...and I just don't care as I cannot see or hear them.
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