They USED to let us AVW, copy and take home. But now they do not allow anything off their grid.

ask if the the owner changes his stuff from copy to buy for 0 that works almost allways

It is strange as some items at some malls, etc I can get and others I can't maybe it is that thing that one item involved is not copy or something. Sometimes I get the option to copy and not get the item and other times I don't even get the option to copy but when looking at the items details it is set to copy.

If one part of the build is not full perm, this will happen. It can be a texture or even a script and you might miss it. Sometimes the region is being over taxed and might need a restart, or you might need to clear your own cache.